Sunday, August 02, 2015

The Golding Rule by Jim Lynch



This is another guest posting by Jim Lynch, our favorite English teacher from Bishop O'Reilly.  I still remember reading this book in 1974 as one of our class assignments.

The Golding Rule

            One of the standard assignments in my high school British Literature curriculum was William Golding’s Lord of the Flies. Written in 1954, the novel concerns a group of pre-adolescent English boys stranded on a tropical island without adults, after an abortive attempt to evacuate them to safety during a nuclear war. Within a brief period of time, these children of a sophisticated Western European nation with a proud tradition of culture and civilization turn to bloodlust, savagery and murder. 

After the classes finished an exhaustive discussion of the novel, I always called for a personal and secret written response to a few pointed questions.  On scraps of paper they’d respond to the following: 1. If you and your entire class were stranded on a similar uncharted island for the rest of your lives, without hope of rescue, name the person in the class for whom you would vote to be chief. 2.  Excluding identification, is there any potential Jack Merridew (the antagonist who become a bloody dictator) in the class? 3. Without rescue, would the eventual outcome your stay on the island be positive or negative?

Invariably, their responses led me to wonder if we had read the same book. In their eighteen-year-old naive camaraderie, an overwhelming majority of my students: 1. Named a popular athlete or student council president as chief, 2. Refused to allow for the possibility that any of their peers could become ruthless savages, and 3. Thought that their acquired wisdom would allow them to overcome and solve any difficulties that arose.  “Gilligan’s Island” anyone?

After each and every such class response, I’d attempt to bring my students’ utopian vision more in line with Golding’s theme.  In the summer of 1972, I reminded them, Tropical Storm Agnes wrought devastation to the town surrounding the very school in which they now sat.  Many of my students were evacuated from the flood zone. After the Susquehanna’s raging waters finally subsided, I rode through the town in a panel truck, picking up flat tires from huge pay-loaders and delivering repaired ones, as an employee of a local tire company.

On every street corner, I’d continue to point out, were members of the National Guard carrying locked and loaded M-16’s, with orders to shoot looters on sight. Pennsylvania’s governor had declared a state of emergency, and the local police force was temporarily out of commission. Why would such an action be necessary in such an area filled with friendly family neighborhoods and small businesses? What could have been the governor’s reasons for such a move?  After moments of silence, the only response ever offered was a variation of, “That was different.”

  
I then would offer a theoretical proposition.  Suppose, I said, representatives of the police in their municipality had gone on the local news and indicated that protracted and unsuccessful negotiations for a new contract had broken down. Consequently, all members of the police department would go on strike as of midnight next Friday. Would the crime rate in their town, I asked, go up, go down or remain the same on that weekend? Once again I encountered initial silence, followed by, “That’s different.”

Reminding them that Golding crafted his story as a microcosm of larger society, I then asked why their parents paid hefty taxes to support a criminal justice system.  Beyond police protection, I said, why do we need courthouses, magistrates, judges, lawyers, and prison facilities?  Because there are bad people in society, they would respond, and we have to protect ourselves from them.  And all those bad people, I’d remind them, once sat in classes just like this one and had every opportunity to work hard, play by the rules, and choose happy and productive lives.

Ultimately, I would conclude class discussions of the book with my hope that my students would reopen the discussion at their 25th class reunion, and my belief that, by that time, the seeds planted in their consciousness by Golding would have germinated in the soil of their maturity. While I appreciated their idealism, I found their naivete unsettling.  I only attended one such class reunion, but the alumni were having such a memorable evening catching up and sharing family photos that I was loath to raise the issue with anyone.

I seriously doubt, however, that the needle would have moved to a great degree in the direction of a pessimistic view of the human condition. While the signs are abundant, most prefer to avert their eyes and focus on family and friends, rather than the larger world.  Despite media websites, and twenty-four-hour cable news, people tend to push unpleasant intrusions into the background.

 Iran’s hell-bent quest for atomic weapons; Russia’s incursions into the Ukraine; ISIS’s mass beheading, burning and drowning, and its goal of a world-wide caliphate; domestic terrorism; a $19 trillion national debt with 93 million American adults unemployed; massive illegal immigration; race riots in St. Louis and Baltimore; soaring homicide rates in urban areas - let the people we elected deal with such things, while we are busy attending to our own problems. When it appears that crime is a little too close for comfort, we’ll simply have an ADT sign planted in our front yard and a deadbolt installed on our front door. 







Most people believe that if we live by the golden rule, we’ll all get along.  And for those few in society who don’t abide by that principle, we have police departments and a criminal justice system. The ugly reality that we don’t want to face, however, is that only a larger framework of laws makes it possible for anyone to abide by such an idealistic rule. For those who choose to live by a more primitive code of behavior, the golden rule is a fairy tale. 

People likely to ignore criminal law are only restrained by the penalties involved in breaking the law. When the laws cannot be enforced due to natural or man-made disasters, all bets are off, and the ranks of those few begin to swell. According to historian Will Durant, “Pugnacity, brutality, greed, and sexual readiness were advantages in the struggle for existence.”  Those “relics” of our emergence as a species, he cautions, are still firmly embedded in our DNA.  The systems of laws that have evolved over millennia were put in place to protect us from ourselves.

While most us are focused on mortgages, soccer practice for the kids and paying the bills, however, those laws are beginning to fray around the edges, along with many commonly held social mores and practices.  As the federal government looks the other way in the face of millions of illegal immigrants streaming across our southern border, and of mayors establishing sanctuary cities in defiance of federal law, society has also changed its views on acceptable behavior. The melting pot has been replaced by separate, “multi-cultural” groups with individual agendas.

Even when people do venture outside their home and work bubbles to offer an opinion on larger issues, they are subject to censure for being politically incorrect.  They aren’t successful because they have invested time and energy in education and career, but because of their “white privilege” (African-American success is often attributed to being an “Uncle Tom”).  In the absurdity of political correctness, domestic Islamist terrorism has been transformed into workplace violence, illegal immigrants have become undocumented immigrants, drug addicts are dubbed chemically-challenged, prostitutes are renamed sex workers, and an illegitimate baby becomes a love child.

 On many university campuses, students are warned about “micro-aggressions” for using “trigger words” which remind the hearer of past traumatic events:  “Selling someone down the river” is a racist reference to slavery; acting like a “hooligan” and being put into a “Paddy Wagon” are slur terms for those of Irish ethnicity; calling a rioter and looter a “thug” is code terminology for the “N word.”  If you have doubts about man’s role in climate change, you are branded a “global warming denier” (with the added insinuation echoing a holocaust denier).  Charlton Heston aptly referred to political correctness as “tyranny with manners.”





Durant’s comment on this phenomenon is instructive: “Civilization gives way to confrontation; law yields to minority force; marriage becomes a short-term investment in diversified insecurities; reproduction is left to mishaps and misfits; and the fertility of incompetence breeds from the bottom while the sterility of intelligence lets the race wither at the top.” 

What too many fail to recognize or acknowledge in the sophisticated, technologically-advanced 21st century is that civilization is a razor-thin veneer.  Despite our scientific discoveries and breakthroughs, we remain captives of our primitive ancestors in our essential nature.  Man is only an evolutionary link between primitive apes and truly civilized human beings. 

Having served in the Royal Navy during World War II, Golding witnessed the worst of human behavior, with the cost of more than 60 million dead - six million of whom were cruelly obliterated in the concentration camps of a cultured and Christian European state. The trauma he witnessed occurred a mere twenty years after the seemingly minor and avoidable events leading to the outbreak of World War I, which claimed 37 million military and civilian casualties.  

Golding knew that those civilized British children in his novel represent the distressing reality about where humankind actually stands in its slow development as a species. Through his work, he speaks to the necessary, if unpleasant, fact that the golden rule is only possible within the context of the Golding rule: we must never fail to recognize and remember that civilization is built on the rule of law. Treating one another with generosity, kindness and decency is contingent upon our willingness to subordinate ourselves to the hard-won lessons of history. Without that commitment, we run the horrific risk of setting, not an island, but the world on fire.


Jim Lynch
Fleetwood, PA
August 2, 2015
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Friday, July 17, 2015

40th Reunion Planning Meeting


Hi Everyone,

        About a few months back I wrote saying how nostalgic I was feeling and wanted to start planning our Class Reunion…I know it’s two years away, but good planning takes a long time, that’s why we had such a great time at our 25th Class Reunion, so now, if anyone doesn’t mind, I would like to start planning our 40th. 

        The wheels are already spinning in my head with some fantastic ideas, two of which I’m keeping a secret so everyone can enjoy them, they’re small ideas, but they ‘re great and won’t cost anyone anything, it’s simple, but fun.  I know everyone can’t make it, and sorry, but I don’t know how Skype works, but I thought why can’t everyone join in, we’re in the year 2015, so I’m planning on meeting, tentatively for Friday, August 28th, let’s say 8:00 p.m. at the Grotto in Edwardsville, if that day is not working for everyone, we’ll pick another day.  For those who live out of town, but still want to join in the planning, how about we do it via chat room on Facebook. I think I have just about everyone in our class as a Facebook friend, but I may have missed a few, that way it can all be planned together, sounds like a plan, huh?

        Here are a few items I thought of that will make this a success other than seeing my classmates and any teachers attending and what I think needs to be discussed.

1.      Have a Disc Jockey.
2.      Send out Save The Date Cards…that way no excuses for not being there.
3.      Pick a person to be our Treasurer…Arlene, you did such a great job at our 25th, please be our Treasurer, no pressure.
4.      Pick a date, place and time for the Reunion.
5.      Maybe or maybe not have a theme.

As you can see, these are all in random order…I do have a lot of great ideas, but maybe someone in our class has some even better ideas, so with enough people attending and being on-line, I think we should keep with the old stand-by, majority rules, in case of a tie, we’ll flip a coin, that way it’s simple and a lot less feelings get hurt.

I hope all that is reading this is feeling just as nostalgic and please, please, please attend at the Grotto if you’re local.  Looking forward to hearing from everyone, especially the ideas and hoping everyone will help plan our 40th Class Reunion and make this a success.  Really looking forward to hearing from all of you.


                                        Karen

Wednesday, October 15, 2014

Robbie Nardone


Robert John Nardone, 18, of Shavertown passed away at his home Tuesday, Oct. 14, 2014.

Born in Kingston, Robbie is the son of attorney John D. Nardone and Patricia Shumaker Nardone, Shavertown, and the beloved brother of Sara Nardone.

Robbie was a senior at Dallas Area High School and was employed by Fire and Ice in Shavertown. He enjoyed his job and was highly regarded by his employers and co-workers. He was an avid football fan, loved animals and spending time with his friends.

He was a kind and compassionate young man with a great sense of humor and an enormous heart. He will be forever missed by family, friends and all who knew him.

Robbie was a wonderful son and brother. He will be loved always by Mom, Dad and Sara more deeply than words could ever describe.

Preceding him in death were his paternal grandparents, Vincent C. and Matilda (Millie) Nardone, and maternal grandfather, Harold L. Shumaker.

Surviving, in addition to his parents and sister, are his maternal grandmother, Eleanor Shumaker, Florida; uncle, Dr. Vincent Nardone and wife, Karen, Connecticut; aunts, Carole Kneal and companion, Gary Burczy, Ashley; Theresa Murphy and husband, James, Kingston; and Pamela Hosack and husband, John, Colorado; and cousins, Dr. Vincent J. Nardone, Annaria Barnds and husband, Brandon, Heather and Allison Hosack.

Friends may call from 4 to 7 p.m. Thursday at Harold C. Snowdon Funeral Home Inc., 140 N. Main St., Shavertown.

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

John Osolnick

LUZERNE — John V. Osolnick, 84, of Luzerne and Bradenton, Florida, passed away on Monday, Aug. 11, 2014, at the Hospice of the Sacred Heart, Dunmore.
He was born in Luzerne, a son of the late Joseph and Mary Varankar Osolnick. He attended Luzerne High School, was a U.S. Air Force veteran of the Korean War and was a member of Luzerne Borough Council for 20 years serving as president for most of that time. John was active in local and state politics and was an alternate delegate to the 1980 Democratic National Convention. He was a member of Local 645, of the carpenters union, for more than 55 years, where he served in numerous positions during his career.
He was preceded in death by a grandson John III; brothers, Frank, Joseph, Ernest Osolnick; sisters, Josephine Krupack, Johanna Varankar, Helen Osolnick.
John is survived by his wife, the former Gloria Arsenault; children, John Osolnick Jr., David Osolnick and his wife, Esther, Luzerne, Diane Boettger and her husband, John, Monroeville, Paul Osolnick and his wife Donna, West Wyoming, Mary Beth Waymire and her husband, John, Georgia; grandchildren, David and Paul Osolnick, Brian, Mark, Scott Boettger, Andrew Osolnick and Michael Waymire.
Funeral will be held at 9:30 a.m. Saturday from the Betz-Jastremski Funeral Home Inc., 568 Bennett St., Luzerne, with a Mass of Christian Burial at 10 a.m. in Holy Family Parish, Luzerne, with the Rev. Michael Zipay officiating. Interment will be in St. Ignatius Cemetery, Pringle. Friends may call from 6 to 9 p.m. Friday at the funeral home.
To light a virtual candle or leave a message of condolence for his family, please visit www.betzjastremski.com.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to the Hospice of the Sacred Heart.

Sunday, August 10, 2014

Agnes Bishie

LUZERNE — Agnes Bishie, 88, formerly of Luzerne and Allentown, died Aug. 5, 2014, at the Lutheran Home, Topton.
Born in Swoyersville, she was a daughter of the late Peter and Mary (Soy) Maholik and the wife of the late Leonard C. Bishie, with whom she celebrated 49 years of marriage before his death in 2000.
A 1942 graduate of Swoyersville High School, Agnes worked as a bookkeeper for businesses including Friar and Pizano in Luzerne and Gus Genetti Hotel, Wilkes-Barre.
An avid Philadelphia Phillies and Philadelphia Eagles fan, Agnes also enjoyed collecting recipes, shopping and spending time with her family.
She was a member of Holy Family Parish, Luzerne.
Her earlier struggle with cancer is documented on the Lehigh Valley Hospital's Wall of Hope, http://www.lvhn.org/assets/virtual_tours/hope2.swf.
She was preceded in death by her sister, Helen Benavage; and brother, Peter Maholik Jr.
Survivors include her daughters, Lorraine Schuette (Kenneth), Allentown, Lois Burke (Peter), Haddon Township, New Jersey, and Lucinda Bauer (Robert), Allentown; and her son, Leonard (Kim), Richmond Hill, Georgia. She was the cherished grandma of nine and great-grandma of six.
She will be greatly missed by her family.
The funeral will be held at 10 a.m. Saturday from the Betz-Jastremski Funeral Home, 568 Bennett St., Luzerne, with a Mass of Christian Burial at 10:30 a.m. in Holy Family Church, 574 Bennett St., Luzerne, with the Rev. Michael Zipay officiating. Interment will be in St. Mary's Cemetery, Swoyersville. Friends may call from 6 to 8 p.m. Friday at the funeral home.
To light a virtual candle or leave a message of condolence for her family, please visit www.betzjastremski.com.
In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be made to the Miracle League of Lehigh Valley, 4460 Park View Drive, Apt T8, Schnecksville, PA 18078,www.miracleleaguelv.org; or to Holy Family Church.

Thursday, July 24, 2014

Millie Nardone

KINGSTON — Matilda "Millie" Nardone, of Kingston and formerly of Mountain Top, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, July 22, 2014, surrounded by her loving children. Her husband, the late Atty. Vincent C. Nardone, preceded her in death in 1964.
She was born in Larksville on Nov. 3, 1930, a daughter of the late George and Verna Motz Bialek. She attended Larksville schools and was a graduate of Larksville High School. She was a former member of St. Jude Church in Mountain Top, and was currently at St. Ignatius Church in Kingston.
Millie devoted her life to raising her children and grandchildren. Their gratitude and love for her can never be adequately expressed.
Surviving are her children, Dr. Vincent C. Nardone (Karen Stack), South Windsor, Connecticut, Atty. John C. Nardone (Patricia Shumaker), Dallas, Carole Kneal (Gary Burczy), Ashley, and Theresa Murphy (James Murphy), Kingston; grandchildren, Dr. Vincent J. Nardone, Annaria Barnds (Brandon), Sara Nardone and Robert Nardone; sisters, Helen Schlosser, Fairless Hills, Delores Kuharcik, North Palm Beach, Florida, and Barbara Beretsky, Larksville; a brother and sisters-in-law; several nieces and nephews.
The family thanks the numerous health care providers who gave Millie such wonderful care over the past few years, especially at John Heinz, Hospice of the Sacred Heart and her home health aide, Bonnie, but in particular John Kish, M.D., and his staff.
Funeral will be 9:30 a.m. Thursday from the Kopicki Funeral Home, 263 Zerbey Ave., Kingston, with a Mass of Christian Burial at 10 a.m. in St. Ignatius Church. Interment will be in St. Mary's Cemetery, Hanover Township. Friends may call from 6 to 9 p.m. Wednesday.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Hospice of the Sacred Heart, 600 Baltimore Drive, Wilkes-Barre, PA 18702.

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Sister Bartholomew 1906-1999

I was listening to the news tonight and heard a story about some students who had achieved perfect attendance for the year.  It reminded me that I achieved that goal once, in the sixth grade.  It made me recall one of my favorite teachers and I began to wonder what happened to her so I decided to do an Internet search.  My fellow St. John's graduates will no doubt remember Sister Bartholomew who taught the sixth grade.  She had a real gift for telling stories.   When we were good, she'd spend the last 15 minutes of class giving us an installment of the story of 'Fred and Joe' which she told from memory.  As she recited the story, we were spellbound and she was able to narrate the story as if she was reading from a book.  It took the entire year to tell the whole story and we'd only hear the installments when we had behaved ourselves throughout the day, which gave us incentive not to act up in class.

It appears from the following obituary that Sister Bartholomew lived to be 93 years old.  When I had her as a teacher in the 6th grade, she would have been around 66 years old, and apparently continued to teach for another 10 years, until she was 76.

So, for the purpose of keeping her memory alive, I thought I'd re-post her obituary here on the blog, and perhaps stir a bit of discussion about her, especially if you can recall the mesmerizing story of Fred and Joe.

-Lee

SR. M. BARTHOLOMEW DURAKO
JANUARY 27, 1999
SISTER M. BARTHOLOMEW (ANNA HELEN) DURAKO, OF THE SISTERS OF SAINTS CYRIL AND
METHODIUS, DIED WEDNESDAY AT MARIA HALL IN DANVILLE.

Thursday, January 28, 1999    

SR. M. BARTHOLOMEW DURAKO 
    January 27, 1999 
    Sister M. Bartholomew (Anna Helen) Durako, of the Sisters of Saints Cyril and 
    Methodius, died Wednesday at Maria Hall in DanvilleBorn March 3, 1906, in Upper Lehigh, she was a daughter of the late Andrew and Anna (Shvetz) Durako. 
    She entered religious life as a postulant at Villa Sacred Heart in Danville on Jan. 6, 1922, from Holy Rosary Parish in Ashley. She was received as a novice on Dec. 21, 1922. She professed her first vows in religion on Dec. 18, 1924, and her final vows on July 11, 1928, at Villa Sacred Heart. 
    She received her bachelor of science in education from Marywood College (University). 
    She served as a primary and elementary teacher for 48 years. She was appointed to parochial schools in the archdioceses of Chicago and New York; and the dioceses of Bridgeport, Conn.; Gary, Ind.; Harrisburg; Metuchen, N.J.; Newark, Del.; Scranton, and Syracuse, N.Y. 
    Her first assignment in 1925 was to St. John the Baptist School in Pittston. Other Scranton diocesan ministries included teaching at Sacred Heart School in Wilkes-Barre, St. Joseph School in Hazleton and St. John Nepomucene School in Luzerne. 
    Sister Bartholomew also was missioned to the Harrisburg diocese for nine years, either as a prefect of boys at Immaculate Conception Orphanage in Middletown, or as a full-time seamstress at Villa Sacred Heart in Danville. 
    She instructed children in catechetics for most of her teaching years, particularly preparing them for receiving Holy Communion. She also trained altar boys. 
    After 57 years in the religious life, she took up residence at Maria Hall in 1982, where she continued in the ministry of prayer and service, particularly, sewing, until the time of her death. 
    She was preceded in death by her sister, Sister M. Corona, SS.C.M; and five brothers, John, Andrew, George, Michael, and Joseph Durako. 
    Surviving are her sister, Martha Lynch, Morrisville; and several nieces and nephews. 
    Transfer of the body to Maria Hall in Danville will take place at 3 p.m. today, followed by praying of the Rosary. There will be a scripture wake service at 6:30 p.m. this evening. 
    There will be a Mass of Christian Burial at 10:45 a.m. Friday in Maria Hall, with the Rev. John F. Samson, of Sister Bartholomew's parish, Holy Rosary Church in Ashley, as chief celebrant. The Rev. Francis X. Malinowski, Maria Hall chaplain, will be homilist. 
    Burial will be in the congregation cemetery at Villa Sacred Heart. 
    Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the David J. Brady Funeral Home in Danville.----- 
   

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Jack Atcavage, Jr.

I got this from a few people today.  Rick Atcavage's Jack brother passed away on Monday.  Our sympathies to his family.  Jack was about 5 years older than us so he had graduated from BOR by the time we got there, but I recall playing poker at his apartment when we were in high school.  He will be missed.  -Lee

John "Jack" Atcavage Jr., of Kingston, passed away Monday, April 8, 2013, at the Wilkes-Barre General Hospital.

Born in Wilkes Barre, a son of Dolores Donovitch and the late John Atcavage, Jack was a graduate of West Side Central Catholic High School, Kingston, Class of 1972, and a graduate of King's College, Class of 1976.

Jack was very active in Scouting and attained the highest rank of Eagle Scout. He was also an avid Dallas Cowboys fan.

Jack was the owner and operator of Frank's Quality Market in Luzerne. Prior to that, he started a catering partnership with his late father, John.

Surviving, in addition to his mom, Dolores, are sisters, Marilyn Atcavage (John), Phoenixville, Pa., and Carolyn Kehrli, Glenmoore; brother, Richard Atcavage, Gwynedd Valley; nieces, Katelyn Atcavage and Nicole Kehrli; nephews, Richard Atcavage and Sean Atcavage; and a very dear friend, Jennifer McLaughlin.

Family and friends may call Thursday from 6 to 8 p.m. at the Lehman-Gregory Funeral Home Inc., 281 Chapel St., Swoyersville. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held Friday at 10 a.m. at Holy Family Parish, Bennett Street, Luzerne. Anyone attending is asked to go directly to the church. Interment will be in St. Mary's Annunciation Cemetery, Pringle.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Boy Scouts of America.

Sunday, March 24, 2013

James A. Reinert


Attorney James M. Reinert, 82, of Shavertown, passed away Friday, March 22, 2013, at The Meadows Nursing Center in Dallas.

He was born in Wilkes-Barre, son of the late William A. and Maude Mulcahy Reinert. Jim graduated from Kingston High School in1947, earned a bachelor's degree in accounting from King's College in 1951, and earned a Juris Doctorate from Dickinson School of Law in 1954. He served as preceptee of the late David Yelen, Esq., in 1954 and 1955. Mr. Reinert graduated from Officer's Candidate School and the School of Naval Justice and served as a member of the Judge Advocate Generals Corps in the U.S. Navy from January 1956 until May 1959 and received an honorable discharge with the rank of lieutenant.

Attorney Reinert maintained a private law practice in Luzerne County beginning in 1959. He served as chairman of the Luzerne County Board of View from 1960 to 2005; law clerk to the late Judge Jacob Schiffman in the Luzerne County Court of Common Pleas, Eleventh Judicial District, from 1961 to 1970; chief public defender of Luzerne County from 1970 to 1976; and solicitor for the Shavertown Fire Co. and Franklin Township. Mr. Reinert was admitted to practice before the U.S. Supreme Court in April 2006.

A dedicated community servant, Jim was a board member and president of the Dallas Rotary Club and was a humble recipient of the Rotary International Paul Harris Award , a board member of AAA Mid-Atlantic and a board member of the Harveys Lake Yacht Club. He served as an adjunct professor at King's College for 10 years and as a lecturer for the Pennsylvania State Police Training School in Forty Fort. Mr. Reinert was admitted to the Wilkes-Barre Law and Library Association on Feb. 17, 1955, and in 2005 received a Senatorial Citation from the Office of Pennsylvania Sen. Charles Lemmond in recognition of 50 years of exemplary service.

Jim was an avid performer and lover of music, singing with the King's College Glee Club, Concordia and St. Mary's and St. Therese's choirs. He also was active in his parish of St. Therese Roman Catholic Church, Shavertown, serving as a Eucharistic minister and on numerous other committees.

Throughout his life, Jim's greatest enjoyment came from being together with his family in Cape May, N.J., at the Harveys Lake Yacht Club, and especially around the backyard pool. Even though his accomplishments and honors were many, Pop was best known for his warm and welcoming home, where anyone and everyone was loved and treated like family.

James and his wife, the former Margaret Mary Simonson, celebrated their 56th wedding anniversary on June 2, 2012. In addition to his wife, Mr. Reinert is survived by his sons, William C., Dallas; attorney James P. and his wife, Pegg, Kirkwood, Mo.; Dr. Paul M. and his wife, Kimberly, Dallas; Philip J. and his wife, Tania, Trucksville; and attorney Matthew E., Trucksville, and Rebecca A. Yurko, Forty Fort; as well as 15 grandchildren and one great-grandchild.

Jim's family expresses their heartfelt gratitude to Dr. Lanning Anselmi, his staff and the caring and compassionate staff of the Meadows Nursing and Rehabilitation Center for the extraordinary care he received.

The family will receive friends and relatives at St. Therese Roman Catholic Church on Pioneer Avenue in Shavertown from 10 to 11:45 a.m. Wednesday, March 27, 2013. A Mass of Christian Burial will follow promptly at noon with the Rev. James J. Paisley, pastor, officiating. Interment will be in St. Mary's Cemetery, Hanover Township, at the convenience of the family. Arrangements have been entrusted to the Richard H. Disque Funeral Home Inc., 2940 Memorial Highway, Dallas. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Back Mountain Food Pantry, 40 Knob Hill Road, Shavertown, PA 18708.
 

Saturday, October 27, 2012

Edward W. Krubitzer

Edward W. Krubitzer

EDWARD W. KRUBITZER, 76, formerly of West Wyoming, passed away Tuesday, Oct. 23, 2012, at the Geisinger Wyoming Valley Medical Center, Plains Township. Born in Wilkes-Barre, he was a son of the late William and Adella Blinstrub Krubitzer. Surviving are his wife of 54 years, the former Patricia Genanie; daughters, Heidi Springman, Williamsport; Leah Krubitzer and her husband, Scott Simon, Davis, Calif.; Sherrie Donovan and her husband, Brian, Brentwood, Tenn.; Lori Allen and her husband, Chris, Nashville, Tenn.; grandchildren, Brook Springman, Maria and Burke Allen, and Emily Donovan.
Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to Gubbiotti Funeral Home, 1030 Wyoming Ave., Exeter. There will be no public calling hours. To send the family an online condolence, please visit www.gubbiottifh.com.

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Keep Trousers on the Apes

This is another guest posting by Mr. Lynch, our favorite English teacher...

In their eleven-volume series, “The History of Civilization,” Will and Ariel Durant detail man’s attempts to create stable and secure societies.  Throughout recorded history, they recount, nations and empires have striven to replace tribal barbarism with societies in which people can live in peace, harmony and economic self-sufficiency.  Along the way, historians, poets, scientists, theologians and philosophers have left records of those attempts.

As a species, human beings have violence and predation built into their DNA. Durant relates that man’s history can be traced back a million years before Christ, but that farming as a means of survival began only 25,000 years before.  How did our ancestors survive for 975,000 years prior to raising crops?  Brutality and hunting were indelibly imprinted in our evolving humanity during that span.  In the relatively paltry 2,000 years of the Christian era, those inbred tendencies and instincts have battled with man’s attempts to tame the beast within.  Indeed, Durant characterizes contemporary humans as “trousered apes.”

Throughout modern history, societies have attempted to temper those tendencies, as increasing intellectual ability gave rise to rational thought, scientific discovery, and philosophical investigation of man and his place in the universe.  It has been a steep learning curve, as wars, destruction and privation dominated the centuries, with the twentieth century ranking as the bloodiest.

Beginning with Gutenberg, the means of exploring the emerging ideas of scientists, mathematicians, economists and philosophers began to gain wider dissemination, and with them came the gradual understanding that humankind had to recognize and cope with its inherently violent disposition.  With burgeoning scientific discovery and increasing economic autonomy, western societies realized that the accumulation and sharing of knowledge held the keys, not just to increased wealth and productivity, but to the possibilities of mutual understanding and peaceful coexistence among peoples and nations as well.

In order to preserve those materials, the great universities of Europe eventually became the repository of the accumulated wisdom of prior ages. The genius of Plato, Socrates, Aristotle, Homer, Horace, Virgil, Cicero and Aquinas, as well as Shakespeare, Milton, Chaucer, Cervantes, da Vinci, Swift, Hobbes, Descartes, Galileo, Locke, Darwin, Tolstoy, Voltaire and many others provides invaluable insight in our quest to understand the nature of humanity. The ugly as well as beautiful truths they have discovered are the means for continuing intellectual evolution toward a better future.

In his “Idea of a University,” Cardinal Newman indicated that the role of a university was to help students “ . . . reach out toward truth, and grasp it.”  Sadly, that purpose has been largely replaced in this country’s institutions of higher learning.  A great college and university system has, in the last fifty years, become less concerned with academic pursuits than with physical expansion and sports.  Major universities have become de facto minor-league farm teams for the National Football League, Major League Baseball and the National Basketball Association.  The perversion of what should be the intellectual pursuit of knowledge afforded by such schools is evident when sports announcers interview professional athletes after a televised game.  The level of discourse is often cringe-worthy.  In the 1980’s, all-pro football player Dexter Manly of the Washington Redskins admitted that he could not read – after graduating from college.  More recently, Terrell Owens announced that he is in financial straits, having burned through an estimated one hundred million dollars.  It’s a safe bet that any of the college classes he attended did not include economics.

Instead of the core curricula of previous generations, many of today’ schools offer a variety of watered-down courses, as well as a soft grading system.  It is striking that even under these circumstances nearly half of enrolled freshmen drop out before getting a degree.  The reasons for such a situation are manifold:  1. the rise of self-esteem as the measure of individual worth (“Everybody gets a trophy” and “We don’t keep score”); 2. the fragmentation of family structure; 3. The lack of preparation by elementary and high schools; 4. public education’s mad chase after federal and state dollars attached to flawed assessment, resulting in teaching for the test, and outright cheating in order to meet governmentally-mandated guidelines. Add to that the voracious appetites of colleges and universities for ever-larger student populations to finance expansion, together with mushrooming sports facilities, and you wind up with a perfect storm.

To keep the college education engine purring, schools often provide a pulse and checkbook admissions policy. Consequently, many poorly prepared students require remediation before they can begin to compete. Anyone who believes that a few first semester remedial classes can erase thirteen years of poor education is engaging in wishful thinking.   Once on campus, students can choose classes from columns A through Z which do not require much time, effort or thought.  Instead of Greek and Roman classics, and masterpieces of Western civilization – all of which contribute to the cultural bedrock of America – students can now choose elective courses in more contemporary classics, such as 1. “The Simpsons and Philosophy” (Cal Berkeley); 2. “The History of Shopping” (Yale); 3. “The Unbearable Whiteness of Barbie” (Occidental College); 4. “Lesbian Novels Since World War II”  (Swarthmore), 5. “Nip, Tuck, Perm and Tattoo” (Alfred University); and 6. “Marxist Concepts of Racism” (Harvard).

Shakespeare, et al. are seen as “Dead white European males” who can’t possibly offer a valuable educational experience to students, because of their collective “racism, misogyny and lack of diversity.”  As a result of such lowered standards and expectations, many graduates can’t identify the three branches of the federal government, provide the decade in which the Civil War took place, or name the governor of their state.  A recent study by professors at New York University and the University of Virginia found that nearly half of students show “no significant learning after two years of college.”  Going to college has become a very expensive four-year “booze cruise” for far too many individuals, a good percentage of whom do not need a college degree in the first place.

Unfortunately, guidance counselors have convinced high school students that they need college in order to walk upright without dragging their knuckles.  Trade schools for electricians, carpenters, plumbers and masons just don’t carry a sufficient social cachet.  College has been oversold as a necessary step to a better life, but the truth is that it is simply not appropriate for everyone.  If you’ve got the ideas and ingenuity necessary to build a better mousetrap, you may not need college at all.  Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg and Steve Jobs (drop-outs all) speak to this point.

For those who need a degree – pre-med and pre-law students, engineers, architects, educators, accountants, math and science majors, for example – a core curriculum that includes significant classes should be mandatory.  Classes in Greek and Roman classical literature, as well as survey classes in American and Western European history and literature are necessary for a well-rounded doctor, lawyer, teacher or scientist, as are required classes in philosophy, theology and government.

Steeped in the knowledge of ancient Greece and Rome, as well as the wisdom of European masters, the framers were able to provide the world with the freest and most prosperous nation in the history of mankind.  The Declaration of Independence and the Constitution reflect all that is best in that canon.  Proper education of citizens is the only way to insure that their vision continues for posterity.  In a society where more people recognize Snooki than the Chief Justice of the Supreme Court, we’re truly at a crossroads.  Can we keep the trousers on the apes, or do we regress to the forest primeval?


James Lynch
Fleetwood, PA

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Golden and I Knew It

Golden and I Knew It

James LynchAfter a two-year stint as a rookie teacher at a small and new Catholic high school in northern New Jersey, I left the job for economic and personal reasons. The economics reflected starting a family (my wife ceased to work as a new mother). The personal involved doubts about my chosen profession.

Because of a confluence of circumstances, I had been made English Department Chairman. I was given this position simply because I was the first of the new English teachers hired to staff the school, where I taught junior and senior English. Fresh out of college, I felt out of my depth as an educator. I had to design a curriculum, assign classes, and select and order textbooks, all without a veteran teacher or mentor as a sounding board. Lacking any frame of reference, I felt relieved when I had to leave.

After two subsequent years as the world’s worst salesman (tires), I realized that although I was raw and uneven in my teaching, my future lay in education. What I needed, I determined, was further experience in the company of other teachers who could provide answers to questions that mattered in the day-to-day life of an educator.

The opportunity to reenter teaching presented itself in 1972 when an opening occurred at West Side Central Catholic (soon to be renamed Bishop O’Reilly) High School in Kingston, Pennsylvania. I took the position full of doubts and reservations, but determined to learn, once and for all, if time and circumstance could make a difference. It was to be a turning point in my life, both professionally and personally.

My first impression of the students was impressive. They seemed to move through the day with an ease and maturity untypical for teenagers. While they certainly dealt with the universal and eternal concerns of peer acceptance, self-image and increasing autonomy, they nevertheless demonstrated a congenial symbiosis with teachers and administrators, and exhibited a genuine sense of belonging to their school. In general, they looked comfortable and content in their demeanor. There were cliques, for sure, but no real distinct separation. Jocks were in the glee club and in plays, while National Honor Society students played sports and joined homecoming committees. With rare exceptions, they respected their teachers, and looked upon them as professionals who cared about their academic and personal development.

I always considered them as guests in my classroom. As their host, I both extended and received a respect that permeated our discussions and interactions. Even their gentle mockery of the faculty belied a palpable esteem. I remember student-generated and circulated comic books that poked fun at teachers who, they alleged, were hiding in plain sight as superheroes. One history teacher in particular was presented as Captain Coma, who wore a cape with a huge C in its center. Captain Coma once saved children from escaping tigers and lions at a zoo by lecturing them until they fell into comas in mid rampage.

We had our share of miscreants over the years, but they usually didn’t last long in the school’s family ambience. They were looked upon as odd or pitiful by the majority of students, alongside whom they stood out in marked contrast. While my rose-colored glasses of retirement have not obscured the undercurrent of experimentation that colors teenagers of all eras, the reality is that such activity rarely breached the surface of student life in any blatant or consistent fashion. Perhaps strong family bonds were part of that equation. At any rate, a positive student demeanor and deportment evidenced itself in an excellent academic and social environment.

Perhaps the best example of the school’s warmth and vitality can be seen in its addition of an educational program for special-needs students during its later years. Essentially a school within a school, its curriculum was geared to the needs of these students, although there was some overlap in some other courses, such as computer classes. These students also shared the cafeteria, attended pep rallies and frequented sporting events. If the idea was to have such students get used to mainstream society, it accomplished considerably more. As I stood at my classroom door during change of classes, I often witnessed my students making casual conversation with these special adolescents, high-fiving them and asking about their classes. In the final analysis, I don’t know which group learned more about life and love in those interactions.

The teachers were of two types: generally older nuns from several orders (their percentage of the faculty had begun to decline as vocations ebbed after Vatican II), and generally younger lay teachers. Initially, the sisters seemed to tolerate us as unfortunately necessary components of the teaching staff. Over the years I spent at the school, the ratio of sisters to lay teachers tilted quickly. By the end of the school’s existence, one nun was on staff as a librarian. Lay teachers were generally in their twenties in the early 70’s, and graduates of local colleges and residents of surrounding communities.

Because Catholic schools were exempt from state/federal educational policies and regulations, and the religious staff generally left us to our own resources, we were able to pursue teaching in a purely practical and innovative fashion. We weren’t bogged down in a morass of state standards, promulgated by faceless bureaucratic “experts” who couldn’t find the inside of a classroom with a map and a flashlight.

Consequently, we relied upon one another to build and implement teaching methods and strategy. Aside from periodic (and generally inconsequential) teacher meetings conducted by the administration, we discussed our mutual concerns informally – in the faculty lounge, local taverns, at holiday “progressive parties,” and end-of-the-year picnic outings. Because we shared our approaches and discussed our failures and successes, we grew and prospered as a faculty. The result created an exceptional educational experience for teachers and students alike. During the four decades I spent at Central Catholic/Bishop O’Reilly, graduating seniors merited college acceptance in the 90th percentile range and millions of dollars in scholarship offers.

At the risk of sounding hyperbolic, I found teaching at Central/O’Reilly to be almost magical. The work was both hard and time-consuming, but the classroom experience made those considerations more than worthwhile. Very often the change-of-class bell interrupted a class discussion that neither students nor teacher wanted to end. Because many teachers volunteered their time to chaperone after-school activities, we got to know students, and to be known by them, in an added dimension. Teachers in charge of a student club or activity had merely to ask their colleagues to assist at an event. Proms, all-night dance marathons, plays and concerts all provided teacher-student interaction outside the classroom. Weekly free tutoring at the school in multi-disciplinary areas during early evening hours also offered opportunities to foster mutual understanding and respect.

In retrospect, the number of second-generation students whose parents I had taught offers confirmation of the value afforded the school. At report card nights, parents often related their desire to have their children share their high school experience. It is noteworthy that we also taught many students whose parents were public school teachers and administrators. Perhaps the most telling and gratifying indication that we were doing worthwhile work can be seen in the number of graduates who returned to the school as new educators and became valued colleagues of their former teachers.

The time and distance afforded by retirement has deepened my appreciation for being able to participate in such an extraordinary time and place. It is a source of immense satisfaction that the school’s traditions and accomplishments endure in the memories of her graduates and will be passed on to their children and grandchildren. I suppose that line from the Alma Mater had it right: West Side Central Catholic/Bishop O’Reilly will “live on in glory” in the hearts and minds of everyone lucky enough to be associated with that incredibly fulfilling educational institution. Not only is that time a “golden age” in memory, it carried with it a golden aura each day I walked those halls, and for that I will always be grateful.


Jim Lynch
Fleetwood, PA
April 10, 2012
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Monday, March 05, 2012

Eugene D. Hogan

I just got this information from Maryellen Cusma who told me that Gene Hogan passed away yesterday after a month-long illness. These are the only details available in the Times Leader. I'll post more details when they become available.


Eugene (Gene) D. Hogan, 53, Plymouth, died Sunday, March 4, 2012, in Kindred Wyoming Valley, Wilkes-Barre. Born March 4, 1959, he was the son of Eleanor Vaselin Hogan and the late Eugene Hogan. He was a graduate of Bishop O'Reilly High School, Kingston, class of 1977, and attended Luzerne County Community College. He worked alongside his father at the Bull Run Garage, Plymouth, and eventually becoming proprietor of Bull Run Garage-Sunoco. He was a member of All Saints Parish, Plymouth. He was a former Plymouth Borough controller and councilman. He served as Plymouth Borough Democratic Party Vice-Chairman for the past five years. He was a Democratic Committeeman from 1988.

Preceded in death was his father, Eugene Hogan, May 13, 2007. Surviving, besides his mother, are his wife of 18 years, the former Helene Simonds; brothers, Robert (Jeanne), Shavertown; John (Lisa), Shickshinny; Patrick (Michelle), Shavertown; and Kevin, Kingston; sister, Nancy Snyder, Plymouth; numerous nieces and nephews. A funeral will be held Wednesday, 9:30 a.m. in Kielty-Moran Funeral Home Inc., 87 Washington Ave., Plymouth, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 10 a.m. in All Saints Parish, Willow St., Plymouth. The Rev. Robert Kelleher will officiate. Interment will be in St. Vincent de Paul Cemetery, Larksville. Friends may call Tuesday, from 5 to 8 p.m., in the funeral home.

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Joseph Hometchko

Joseph Hometchko


February 12, 2012

Joseph Hometchko, 89, a former resident of Swoyersville, passed away on Sunday afternoon, February 12, 2012, in the Bay Pines Veterans Hospital, Seminole, Fla. His beloved wife was the late Helen J. (Kender) Hometchko, who passed away on October 8, 2007.

Together, Joseph and Helen shared 60 beautiful years of marriage. Born on June 16, 1922, in Luzerne, Joseph was a son of the late John and Julia Hometchko. Joseph was raised in Swoyersville and had resided there most of his life. He was a graduate of the former Swoyersville High School, class of 1941. After Helen's passing, Joseph moved to Largo, Florida, to be closer to his family. A U.S. Army veteran, Joseph honorably served his country during World War II with the 90th Infantry, 1st Battalion, 358th Regiment of Patton's 3rd Army. On June 6, 1944, he landed on Normandy Beach in the D-Day Invasion. Joseph was also involved in the Battle of the Bulge and was decorated with the Purple Heart, the Bronze Star and many battle ribbons. Upon his honorable discharge on October 27, 1945, he attained the rank of Private 1st Class.

Prior to his retirement, Joseph was employed by the Department of Veterans Affairs Medical Center, Wilkes-Barre. In his earlier years, he was employed in the local garment industry. Joseph was a faithful member of Holy Trinity Roman Catholic Church, Swoyersville. A proud veteran, he continuously held membership with the Veterans of Foreign Wars. He and his late wife, Helen, were both members of the Swoyersville Senior Citizens Club. They always enjoyed their regular trips to Atlantic City with the senior citizens. In addition to his parents, John and Julia Hometchko; and his wife, Helen, Joseph was preceded in death by his brothers, John, George, Peter, William and Michael; his sisters, Mary, Anna and Marie. Joseph is survived by his sons, David Hometchko and his wife, Bonnie, Charlotte, N.C.; Joseph Hometchko and his wife, Ann, Largo, Fla.; Richard Hometchko and his wife, Susan, Largo, Fla.; grandchildren, Michael Hometchko, Victoria Tomberlin and her husband, Jerry; Kendra Hometchko, Rileigh Hometchko, and Ashley Chase; great-granddaughter, Londynn Victoria Tomberlin; numerous nieces, nephews and friends.

Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial, which will be celebrated on Saturday at 11 a.m. in Holy Trinity Roman Catholic Church, 116 Hughes St., Swoyersville, with the Rev. Edward P. Lyman, officiating. Interment with the Rite of Committal will follow in Holy Trinity Cemetery, Swoyersville, where Military Honors will be accorded by the United States Army. There will be no public calling hours. Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to the care of the Wroblewski Funeral Home Inc., 1442 Wyoming Ave., Forty Fort. For additional information or to send the family of Mr. Joseph Hometchko an online message of condolence, you may visit the funeral home website www.wroblewskifuneralhome.com . Memorial Contributions may be made in Joseph's memory to the Suncoast Hospice Foundation, 5771 Roosevelt Blvd., Clearwater, FL 33760.

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Jean Petrasek


April 25, 2011

Regina Petrasek, 78, of Luzerne, passed away at Wilkes-Barre General Hospital on Monday, April 25, 2011. Born in Wilkes-Barre, February 22, 1933, Regina or Jean, as she was known, was a daughter of the late Edward and Mary Flaherty Laux. She was a graduate of Coughlin High School, class of 1950. Jean was a member and officer of the Mother's Club of the former St. John's Grade School, Luzerne, and the Central Catholic/Bishop O'Reilly Mother's Clubs. She was a member of Holy Family Parish, Luzerne, and its Altar and Rosary Society. In addition to her parents, she is preceded in death by a brother, Gerald.

Regina is survived by her husband, Joseph, whom she married November 21, 1953; her daughter, Maureen, Martinsburg, W.Va.; sons, Joseph, and wife, Rosemary, Martinsburg, W.Va., Ronald, and wife, Carla, Garland, Texas; and grandchildren Alyssa, Meredith, John, Julie, and Jill. She is also survived by a brother, Edward Laux, Wilkes-Barre; and sisters, Eleanor Verazin, Nanticoke, and Carmella Cunningham, Wilkes-Barre; as well as many nieces; nephews; and cousins. Funeral services will be held 9:30 a.m. Thursday from the Metcalfe & Shaver Funeral Home, 504 Wyoming Ave., Wyoming, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 10 a.m. in Holy Family Parish, Bennett Street, Luzerne.

Interment will be in St. Cyril and Methodius Cemetery, Pringle. Family and friends may call from 4 to 8 p.m. on Wednesday. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Cancer Society , in memory of Regina Petrasek, 712 South Keyser Ave., Taylor, PA 18517 or online at www.cancersociety.com

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Jim Keaney


I got an email from Michael Kinney a few days ago that had been sent to him by Mr. Slusser letting him know that Jim Keaney had died. I never had Mr. Keaney for any classes, but I'm sure many of you did. I've included this image of him from our yearbook. Here is his obituary:

Jim Keaney died suddenly at his home in New Port Richey Florida on September 6th, 2010. He was 65. He was born in Wilkes-Barre on December 3rd, 1944.

A graduate from Kings College with a BA in English, he went on to earn his MED at Shippensburg University. He was a past president of the Shippensburg Lions Club and a member of the Knights of Columbus. Jim was leader in the Boy Scouts for over 30 years, serving as camp director at Camp Acahela in the Pocono Mountains.

For forty years he taught students Latin and English – 29 of those years were in the Shippensburg Area School District, where he was also a swim coach for many years. He is survived by his wife Julianne of 35 years, his daughter Erin, son Jamie, mother Alicia, three brothers Mark, Paul and Matthew and two grandsons Roman and A.J.

A memorial service will be held in his honor on September 18th, 2010 at 10:00 am in Shippensburg, PA at Our Lady of the Visitation Church, 305 North Prince Street. Condolences may be sent to his wife at 8433 Creedmoor Lane, New Port Richey, FL 34654.

In lieu of flowers, please donate to the Jim Keaney Scholarship Fund by making checks payable to the "Jim Keaney Scholarship Fund" and send them to Jamie Keaney, 1623 Memorial Drive, Pittsburgh, PA 15216

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Jeanne M. Dalley

Thanks to Joe Ziller for informing me about the passing of Marijean and Marijoan's mother, Jeanne. Our deepest sympathy to both of you.

August 8, 2010

Jeanne M. Dalley, 86, of Wyoming Avenue, Wyoming, passed away Sunday morning, August 8, 2010, in her home in peace. Born in Wilkes-Barre, she was a daughter of the late Charles A. and Agnes Taugher McGroarty. She was a graduate of St. Mary's High School of Wilkes-Barre, Class of 1942. Jeanne continued her education at King's College in Wilkes-Barre to receive her Real Estate license. For most of her real estate career and up to her retirement, she was employed as an agent for Lewith & Freeman Real Estate, Kingston. Earlier in her career, she was employed by Joseph P. Gilroy Real Estate. Besides her career in real estate, Jeanne was a devoted and loving homemaker and mom as well as an avid reader, contributing to her volunteerism as literacy mentor. She volunteered as a Girl Scout leader as well as fundraising for the American Cancer Society . She loved the ocean, listening to music and hosting tea parties. She was a dedicated Nana to her grandchildren and will be sadly missed. She was a member of Our Lady of Sorrows Church of West Wyoming. Jeanne resided in Forty Fort for 40 years before relocating to Wyoming in 1997. Preceding her in death was her husband, Chester L. Dalley; and sisters, Joan Green and Gege Hutsko; and a brother, Charles McGroarty. Surviving are children, Patricia L. Dalley, Wyoming; Sharyn A. Ashman and her husband, Bill, Bel Air, Md.; Deborah Phillips and her husband, Matt, Henderson, Nev.; Duke Dalley and his wife, Joann Urick, Lehman, Pa.; Marijean A. DeCesaris and her husband, Mark, Mahwah, N.J.; Marijoan T. Morena and her husband, Al, Newbury, N.H.; six grandchildren; three great-grandchildren; and nieces and nephews. A funeral service will be held at 9:30 a.m. Thursday from the Metcalfe and Shaver Funeral Home Inc., 504 Wyoming Ave., Wyoming, with a Mass of Christian Burial at 10 a.m. in Our Lady of Sorrows Church, West Wyoming. Interment will be in the Mount Olivet Cemetery, Carverton. Friends may call from 5 to 8 p.m. Wednesday in the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Best Friends Animal Society, 5001 Angel Canyon Road, Kanab, Utah, 84741-5000; or the American Cancer Society of the Wyoming Valley, 190 Welles St., Forty Fort, Pa 18704. .

Sunday, May 23, 2010

Mystery Drummer



I was curious to see where this drummer image would end up if I uploaded it to the new blog hosting site. It appears that it will be at Blogspot.com. Oh well, if anyone can guess the name of this 17-year-old drummer, you win the contest. He's a bit older now, since this photo is from the 1970s.

New Blog Address

A few months ago, Blogger, which is owned by Google and provides the software we use to post and organizes this blog, informed me that they would no longer support the feature (FTP) that lets me host the content on my own domain. Previously, this blog was at http://k0lee.com/bor77reunion/blogger.html. It is now on Google's blogspot.com domain, as you can see from the URL in the address bar. I'm not sure how it will handle picture uploads, but I may give that a try later today and see if it works.

I had contemplated moving the whole blog to Wordpress as I have done with my own blogs, but that is a lot of work and you'd have to learn a new user interface. I still may do that in the future, but at least for now we'll be able to post again.

I'll do a redirect in place of the original blogger file so that anyone attempting to access that URL will be directed here.

Thursday, December 31, 2009

Friday, December 25, 2009

BOR 77 Christmas Gatherings - Sat 12/26/09

It looks like there will be two gatherings of our class members tomorrow, Saturday, December 26th. Starting at 6:30 p.m., a group will meet at Grotto Pizza in Edwardsville and another will be meeting at 7:30 p.m. at at Pinnack's 199 Division St. in Pringle, which used to be Cleary's, which of course used to be Pileggi's. If you schedule your time right, you can probably make it to both of them.

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

More from Karen...

Here is another posting from Karen (I liked your greeting, Karen!) :-)

Thanks Lee, You're The Best!!! I just think we needed something new on there and it worked, 2 more additional postings. I didn't know that Jay now has 3 grandchildren and they all are beautiful children, wow, Aidan grew up a little there. I guess I keep thinking of him the same as the photo of Christian, nonetheless, it was nice seeing something new and good for a change.

Thanks again, and Happy Thanksgiving to you and Terri.
Karen

Tuesday, November 24, 2009





All right, Karen. Here you go. These are pictures of our three grandchildren.
Aidan,Lily, and Christian.






Thursday, November 19, 2009

Thanksgiving Gathering - Novemer 28, 2009

Wow, 2 messages for the blog in one day! Karen must have started something. This one is from Michael Kinney.


It's Holiday Season 2009! Anyone interested in getting together at Grotto Pizza on Saturday November 28th from 6:30 or so onward? Let's go to the Edwardsville Grotto where we held our Icebreaker a few months ago. Let me know if you're interested. Hopefully, Lee will post this on the Class of 1977 website. Happy Thanksgiving.

Email me at fishfishr@juno.com

Michael

Happy Thanksgiving from Karen

This is a message from Karen Leonardi.

Hello Everyone,

Recently I had the opportunity to visit our website and noticed that there has been no postings on our website blog lately, so in an attempt to keep our website (that Lee has worked so very long hours to create and maintain) I am posting a blog and for me this is long overdue. For those that have sent , called or offered condolences regarding my mom, I thank you. I also thank Lee for adding the recent obituaries to the website as I did not know of a few that appeared there. It appears that I’m not alone with a great loss and sadness this year, especially with the Thanksgiving Holiday being next week and the Christmas Holidays right around the corner, there have been many losses of parents, but there is a good part, we are all still here to pass on what our parents and teachers taught us, it’s called Traditions.

I am most saddened by not seeing any recent pics of Jay’s grandson Aidan, there’s an oldie from one of our old blogs, who knows, maybe he’s in grade school, or possibly high school by now, but it won’t be Bishop O’Reilly, now did I say that, who knows, maybe he’s in preschool and has a little girlfriend by now, It would be nice to see new pictures of Aidan and any other grandchildren he may have increased in the Tobias household, even recent Halloween pictures would be nice. I would really like to see some happy and uplifting stuff by now, It would be nice for a change. Aidan if you see this, please tell Grandpa Jay we need to see some new pictures of the first grandchild of the Class of 1977, maybe some others would post and we can all pass on our Traditions to Aidan. Jay, Aidan is soooo cute, how could you not add newer pics, bad grandpa.

For all others that have not posted, I know there’s facebook out there too, I recently added my name, but I still come back to this website, it’s like going back home and you never get bored of it. Even though it sounds like I’m singling Jay out, but I'm not, no one is free of this, Bruce & Beverly, c’mon, get with the program, I’m sure everyone would love to hear and see pictures of Adam, he’s doing great, but I’ll let them tell us more, our 1977 Class is so great, we could have a good little soap opera going on here, I’m sure Mark Hession could tell a lot, anyway, I’m waiting to hear from all of you and Aidan, I’m waiting for a new picture!!!!

Hmmmm, maybe I should have written all of this to Sister Heloise??????

PS: Happy Thanksgiving Everyone…Cluck, Cluck!!!

Monday, September 14, 2009

Helen M. Klecha

Jay just informed me that Sue Klecha O'Donnell's mom passed away last Thursday. Below is the obituary from the Times Leader.


Helen M. Klecha

Helen M. Klecha, 86, formerly of Kingston, passed away on Thursday at Wilkes-Barre General Hospital, surrounded by her family.

Born in Philadelphia, she was a daughter of the late Adolph and Nellie Valevas Kadish. The majority of her life, she resided in Kingston. Helen was a graduate of Kingston High School, Class of 1941. She was a member of St. Ignatius Church, Kingston.

In her younger years, she belonged to the Susquehanna Trailers hiking club, enjoyed playing cards with friends, traveled throughout the United States, loved watching her children play sports, and dedicated herself to family and community.

In her most recent years, she enjoyed watching ballroom dancing and the Pennsylvania polka on WVIA-TV, as well as game shows. Throughout her life, she remained an avid reader and faithful viewer of “All My Children.”
Her favorite pastime was spending time with family and friends. She could never pass up a good laugh or a Milky Way bar.

She was preceded in death by her husbands, Michael Kraftician and John Klecha; brothers, Albert, Joseph and Edward Kadish; as well as a sister, Genevieve Katoski.

Surviving are children, Connie Butler of West Wyoming; Diane Piekanski and husband, Stanley, of Larksville; John Klecha and wife, Mary Ann, of Fairfield, Conn.; Paul Klecha and wife, Jan, of Kingston; Susan O’Donnell and husband, Tim, of North Kingstown, R.I.; 10 grandchildren; three great-grandsons; sister, Agnes Alson, of Wyandotte, Mich.; brother, Adolph Kadish of Swoyersville; and several nieces and nephews.

Funeral will be held on Monday at 9:30 a.m. from the Betz-Jastremski Funeral Home Inc., 568 Bennett St., Luzerne, with a Mass of Christian Burial at 10 a.m. in St. Ignatius Church, Kingston. Interment will be in St. Mary’s Annunciation Cemetery, Pringle. Friends may call on Sunday, from 4 to 7 p.m.
In lieu of flowers, a memorial donation can be made to the Kingston Ambulance, 600 Wyoming Ave., Kingston, PA 18704.
Condolences can be sent to sympathy@betzjastremski.com

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

50th Birthday Party Pics!

Pat Balester sent me a DVD with a lot of digital images of the 50th Birthday Party from last month. There are over 270 photos! I was going to go through the process of figuring out which ones to upload to the website but thought that I'd just upload them all in two separate sets, one that came from Mike's camera and the other that came from Pat's camera. They are in the password protected section of the website. Please email me for the username/password if you've forgotten it.

Mike's Pictures

Pat's Pictures


I also got about 6 videos from Mike, but they are too big to host, and I don't want to upload them to YouTube or anywhere that would make them available to the rest of the world because they involve dancing, singing, and other antics ;-). I may also need to get rights clearances from various sources, since some of these folks have amazing talent, and may have already enlisted the services of a Hollywood agent to represent them. So check back later and perhaps I'll be able to figure out how to share them.

The party went off very well and the setting and weather look absolutely beautiful. I'm sorry to have missed it, as I'm sure are many others who could not make it so I'm thankful for this set of photos to give us a taste of what it must have been like, at least in a virtual sense.

The pictures are arranged in thumbnail sizes and you can click on any one to get a larger size image. If you want to get a full resolution version, you can email me and let me know which ones you want and I'll figure out how to get you full resolution images.

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Facebook comes of age

I feel like I just spent a virtual weekend with Beverly and Bruce Cottle at their vacation getaway at the shore in Delaware. I wasn't there in person, but the numerous pictures that Beverly posted to Facebook today were amazing, and it gave me a sense of what it must be like to vacation with them at their home in Lewes, DE.

I also got to attend a pig roast with my long lost friend, Wink, again in a virtual sense, because she invited me to join her on Facebook a few days ago. I haven't seen Wink for more than 20 years, but hopefully if a few more of you connect to her on Facebook, we'll see her at our 2012 (35th) reunion. It sure felt good to reconnect with her after all these years.

I've been really enjoying the ease-of-use of Facebook and I appreciate the periodic invitations I've gotten to join some of your inner circles and getting to see your pictures and status updates.

If you haven't used Facebook yet, I highly recommend it. At one time, I thought Facebook was just for the kids, but now I'm finding more, ahem, 'mature', people are joining it.

Sure, we were all blogging here back in 2002 when Facebook was still a gleam in the eye of some Harvard nerd, but Facebook really seems to have come into its own in the past year or two with nearly everyone getting on board. Please feel free to invite me to your inner circle (if you feel I'm worthy of that honor :) and take a look into my connections for any familiar BOR77 names. At last count, I had over a 17 of them, and it seems to grow each week.

I think it would be great to stay connected with as many classmates as possible on Facebook. If you've been a hold out, please join now and I can guarantee you won't be without quite a few friends from way back (but do let us know you've joined so we'll know to connect with you!)

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

50th Birthday Party



Chuck Brennan sent along this photo of the 50th Birthday Party held at the Castle Inn in Dallas last weekend. I'll be getting a DVD soon with more pictures and perhaps a few videos of the event.

I was unable to make it this time, but got several updates from Michael during the event and it sounded like everyone was having a great time. When I get more pictures, I'll post them either here in the blog, or provide a link to the password-protected part of the site.

Thursday, July 02, 2009

Bishop O’Reilly Class of 1977 50th Birthday Party Update

From Michael Kinney: (Please note that the attendee status of this post will be updated regularly --- Last update: July 11th)

Due to circumstances beyond our control, the location of our 50th Birthday Party has been changed. It will be held at The Castle Inn on Route 415, the Memorial Highway in Dallas, a few miles before Harvey’s Lake. The date is still July 18th. I’m sorry for the late change and the late notice.

The party will begin at 1:00 PM and end at 6:00 PM. Food (dinner) will be served from 3:00 PM to 5:00 PM. We will have a birthday cake, desserts, pretzels and chips from 1:00 PM on.

“Just Us”, our class band will be playing live just for us!! If you haven’t heard them recently, you’ve missed out. They are still wonderful after all these years. (Two of our three classmates won’t be 50 by the 18th; it’s up to you to guess who they are!)

The menu will be a picnic menu complete with Yogi Bear. Ok, maybe not Yogi, but I got you reminiscing. It includes: Bar-B-Que Chicken; Sausage and Peppers; Hamburgers, Hotdogs, Macaroni Salad, Potato Salad and Cole Slaw. There will also be lettuce, tomatoes and onions. Beverages include unlimited soda, beer and wine. The facility has volleyball, horseshoes and basketball available for us youngins to play. If you feel young that day, bring some foot wear to join in the games. Some of us might want to bring some Ben Gay or your muscle rub of choice.

I need some help choosing the ½ of beer we should have on tap. Please email me and let me know your choice. Majority rules. I already have two votes from our meeting tonight for Yuengling Lager. Please let me know your choice email me at fishfishr@juno.com .

Since the party ends at 6:00 PM. Chuck Brennen suggests everyone join him at St. Nick’s Bazaar next to Bishop Hoban afterwards. I’m serious about that and so is Chuck.

The cost is still $35.00. Make the check payable to Michael Kinney. Mail it to Michael Kinney 150 Andover St. Wilkes-Barre, PA 18702. Please note: I have to give them a final count on July 11th. If you have already paid and do not want to attend please call me at (570) 821-0464 and I will send you a refund.

We will still be holding the Yankee Present swap. So being a present not more than $25.00 and please no gag gifts. Just something from where you currently live. Kathy Hannon Blaum is probably bringing New Jersey blueberries and cranberries, but Robin Lonsdale wants her to bring passes to Atlantic City! See the possibilities are endless!

The Icebreaker will still be held at Grotto Pizza on Route 11 in Edwardsville on Friday the 17th beginning at 6:30ish, ending when they decide to toss us!

Check our class website for those who have paid and are attending. I will be trying to keep Lee updated daily.

This is a list as of July 11th of those who have paid and are attending our 50th Birthday Party.


Mark Dushok
Maryellen Finley-Cusma
Deborah Sadusky-Casey
Michael Laton
Joseph Petrasek
Paul McAndrew
Denise and Sandy Scalzo
Michele Chakon-Garen
Kathy Blaum-Hannon
Michael and Sally Kinney
Paul Reinert
Debbie Cannon-Cramer (2)
Bee Harris-Darrow
Robin Lonsdale
Patrick Balester
Dave Kotarski
Chuck Brennan
Sabrina Baynes
Jay Tobias
Mary Helen Carey-Little
Jolayne Kalac-Pinchak
Mark Hession
AJ Kopicki
Mark Kopicki



IceBreaker Attendees:

Mary Pappas-Kosin
Michael Kinney
Deborah Sadusky-Casey
Mark Dushok
Maryellen Finley-Cusma
Chuck Brennan
Patrick Balester
Robin Lonsdale
David Kotarski
Mary Helen Carey-Little
Bee Harris-Darrow
AJ Kopicki
Mark Kopicki


Maybes:

Michael Laton
Joseph Petrasek
Denise and Sandy Scalzo
Kathy Blaum-Hannon (if she gets into town early enough)
Paul Reinert
Joseph Lynch
Mark Hession


Those Indicating Interest in the Yankee Present Swap:

Joseph Lynch (PA)
Mary Helen Carey-Little (PA)
Debbie Cannon-Kramer (OH)
Kathy Blaum-Hannon (NJ)
Denise & Sandy Scalzo (PA)
Paul McAndrew (PA)
Deborah Sadusky-Casey (Germany)
Michael Kinney (PA)
Bee Harris-Darrow (VA)
Patrick Balestar (MO)

Beer Choices:

Yuengling Lager 4
Miller Lite 2
Coors Lite 2

Class of 1979

Bob and Kim Lonsdale
Ron Petrasek and wife
Tony Kalinosky and wife
Patrice Martinsky
Bridgid Piffer
Noreen and Danny Diaco

P.S. my apologies to Deborah Sadusky-Casey for spelling her name wrong the other day. I only had in front of me and still managed to screw it up.

Also Congrats go out to Grammy Beverly Yakus-Cottle and her husband, Grampy Bruce on the birth of Lily this past Sunday.

Don’t forget the deadline is July 11th.